Daycare is a big step for our children, and for us. It brings many changes in our lives, and it is necessary to know some things.
1. Talk to your child beforehand
Remember that our children hear us since they are in the womb. Maybe they don’t fully understand us, but it is always important to explain the reasons behind adult decisions. So talk to your child about the change that will happen in their life, emphasizing that as soon as you finish work or the activities that keep you away during the day, you will come back for them.
2. Give them time
Once it becomes a fact, it is better to give them time to process the idea and not take them immediately. At least, tell them one week in advance. That means during that week they can visit the school, stay for a few hours, have your child inside the daycare while you wait outside, so they start to familiarize themselves with the new environment. Be patient and give them time to get used to their new routine.
3. Say goodbye
It is very important to always say goodbye to our children because by doing so we start to create the "routine" of saying goodbye and letting them know we will return. Otherwise, they might feel abandoned. Sometimes people suggest not saying goodbye to avoid tears, but it is better for children to have the certainty that you will come back than to feel disoriented because you disappear without explanation and return as if nothing happened.
4. Spend quality time
Now more than ever, this is very important, as dedicating time to your child doing activities they like will create a better connection in your relationship, and they will know you are interested in being together. It is perfectly normal that when you return they do not want to leave your side or show they need a lot of affection.
5. Don’t blame yourself
As parents who work outside the home, it’s difficult not to feel guilty for not taking care of your child during the day, but this happens because we often compare ourselves to other parents. Be clear that the decisions you make for your children are based on giving them the best. This will help convey to your children that the decision to go to daycare is the right one for your family.
6. Leave an item with your scent
Some daycares allow you to leave an item with your scent, like a blouse you slept in or a small blanket that is used often. This tip is very useful, especially when they are still very small. Having an item with your scent will provide security and confidence.
7. You can always change your mind
If after several weeks you see your baby is not adapting to daycare or their caregivers do not meet their basic needs for affection and support, consider changing daycare or looking for other options. Don’t let anyone tell you that they have to get used to it or that that’s life. It is more important that you and your baby feel safe and confident with the service you are receiving. It is okay to change your mind.
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